Actress and television personality Erika Jayne opened up about her love life two years after announcing her divorce from her ex-husband Thomas Girardi. Since their split, the 50-year-old has been rebuilding her life from the ashes of the destroyed marriage which was filled with multiple controversies.
She attempted to come to terms with this past by trying to get back on the dating wagon by attempting to go on dates and meet new people, in hopes of sparking possible friendships and, eventually, relationships. relationships.
In a recent interview, she revealed that these moves have increasingly failed and described how her whims, along with people who were “afraid” of her, caused things to not work out.
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Erika Jayne claimed that men don’t like women ‘forward’
On E ! New Daily Pop on June 22, the “Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” star opened up about her love life following her divorce from her controversial ex-husband. She revealed to host Justin Sylvester that although she tried many times to start a new relationship, her experiences of meeting new guys didn’t always go well in the long run.
“It’s difficult because I don’t think people really know what to expect,” Erika said. “And I can’t access an app. what if [Jeffrey] Dahmer shows up?
After a few meetings that came to nothing, the actress quickly realized the problem. She revealed to Sylvester that her personality was one of the obstacles that caused a breakdown in her communication with her suitors.
“I say exactly how I feel and I realize that men don’t like that,” Jayne added. “They say they want a woman who’s ahead of the curve, but that’s really not the case.”
Erika Jayne says men are ‘afraid’ of her
The reality star called her bold feature ‘socially awkward’, saying it scared a lot of new guys she met and didn’t want to go beyond having more than a first date. you.
“They actually said to me, ‘I’m afraid of you.’ And I was like, ‘Why? I am modern. I thought I was doing what women are supposed to do, which is to say what you think and say what you want, and not.
However, not being able to land a fully committed relationship hasn’t stopped the actress from acting. In April, Jayne told host Teddi Mellencamp of the “Two T’s in a Pod” podcast that her sex life was active.
“Are you currently having sex?” Mellencamp asked, and the “Pretty Mess” singer replied, “Yeah, and that’s okay.”
At the time, the actress declined to answer if she had sex with more than one partner, only revealing that her sexual partner was younger than her.
“It’s scary and I don’t really know what I’m doing”
Despite her bad luck getting into a committed relationship, Erika informed Sylvester that she was happy with her life, emphasizing her joy at having the chance to start over. Her previous marriage to Girardi crashed and burned when she and her ex-husband were accused of fraud and embezzlement, which continued to tarnish them even though they are now divorced.
“I was blessed to start over completely and be released from a 20+ year marriage and wipe almost the entire slate clean in a way,” she said.
Starting over was not easy for the actress. She described her rebuilding process as frightening, even though it contained many opportunities.
“It’s my life to rebuild, so that way it’s a lot of opportunities, but it’s scary at the same time. So that’s when I say ‘no’, it’s scary and I don’t really know what I’m doing I’m just here to try to make it happen.
What is Erika Jayne’s type of guy
If and when she does eventually find a new guy, fans of the reality TV stars might not be surprised at her features as she previously dropped several clues.
According People, the actress isn’t interested in dating men much older than her, implying that she was tired of having so much of an age gap between her partners. Jayne was married to Girardi, who is currently 82, putting the age difference at over 30 years.
“I don’t do the oldest thing anymore,” she told the publication. “I’m 50, so maybe someone in my age range, but I don’t [it] more.”
The reality star also wouldn’t want someone who isn’t beyond his looks, revealing to TMZ late last year that his kind of guy has to have “the smarts.” and adding that appearance is “on a lower scale” of importance. At the time, she also remarked that she didn’t mind dating younger men, but would only date men around 25 and older.